Comprehensive development helps children have the ability to face and solve problems effectively. When children are equipped with knowledge, skills and flexible thinking ability, they can confidently face with difficult situations and find creative solutions. So how can children develop comprehensively? This is always a question that causes many parents “headaches” because they do not know how to properly teach their children.
“First is obedient, Second is knowledge”
Our grandparents have a saying: “First learn etiquette, then learn literature”, which means that we must learn etiquette, how to be human, how to behave with people around us to have good moral qualities first, then then cultivate knowledge, social culture… Correct rules of behavior and etiquette are the basis of a strong cultural foundation. If children are taught how to respect others, listen and treat people around them well, they will develop and be appreciated, creating sympathy for everyone.
Alt: It is necessary to first teach children about politeness before learning about other knowledge
So how to teach children about “first learning rituals – second learning literature”? Children learn a lot through observing and imitating the behavior of adults. Be a good example for your children to follow by showing politeness, respect and diligence in studying and working. Always pay attention to behavior in daily life.
Develop early logical thinking for children
Logical thinking helps children develop the ability to think, analyze and solve problems logically and creatively. This is an extremely important skill in everyday life and has a profound impact on a child’s overall development.
Alt 1: Developing thinking skills for complete development of children
Logical thinking is the basis for future study and research. When children have the ability to reason and analyze logic, they will easily absorb knowledge and process information systematically. This not only helps children grasp knowledge effectively but also develop the ability to self-study and explore further.
Teach children about 2 words “responsibility”
“Responsibility” is the next lesson that needs to be taught to children from an early age. Give children some small “tasks” around the house that parents don’t need to interfere with. Once the child finishes, parents can check back. If the child does well, you can praise and reward him or her with a small gift. However, if the child does not do well or has not completed the task, you can analyze for him or her to understand how he or she should do better, then guide the child to complete the assigned task.
Alt: Analyze and explain to children about self-responsibility
Teaching children responsibility helps develop self-management skills and personal motivation. When children understand that they are responsible for their actions and decisions, they become more deliberate, selective, and confident in making decisions and taking control of their lives. At the same time, children will develop the ability to set goals and make efforts to achieve what they want.
Rewards & punishments must always be fair
In order for children to clearly understand “responsibility” in the things they are assigned and done, rewards & punishments must always be fair. Not only encouraging children to be motivated to try to complete, but children will develop self-discipline, independence and give up the habit of procrastination.
Alt: Be fair in rewarding and punishing your child
On the contrary, if parents reward their children too much or punish them too harshly, it will greatly affect the child’s psychology. In particular, children will feel unfair and become frustrated when performing assigned “tasks”. That can cause many consequences affecting the development of children in the future. Specifically: Children develop laziness, lack of motivation, shyness, or worst of all, there is a gap between children and parents.
Learn other soft skills
In addition to the important and necessary skills above, parents can let their children learn other soft skills. Soft skills help children discover and develop their personal potential. Thanks to these skills, children can focus on developing their own passions, interests and talents, thereby identifying goals and creating a meaningful, happy life.
Alt 3: Children learn many other soft skills at Viet Au International School
Not only that, soft skills help children build good relationships and social interactions. Learning to listen and express opinions politely, along with the ability to interact socially, will help children develop strongly in social environments and teamwork. It also encourages children to develop creative thinking and problem-solving abilities. Children are encouraged to think flexibly, seek creative solutions and practice analytical, reasoning and problem-solving skills.
Summary
The journey to help children develop comprehensively is a long one with many efforts and efforts from both parents and children. So parents should pay more attention and talk to their children. Along with that, don’t forget the 5 tips that Viet Au International School has shared to effectively support your child’s future development journey.
